How Chaplaincy Informs Our Work

Congregational ministry and chaplaincy are two very different forms of spiritual care  common in our world today. Although our work at Trauma Responsive Congregations (TRC) revolves around congregational ministry and serving those in communal settings, we have staff members who are involved in research and in the ministry  of chaplaincy. These areas of spiritual care take on very different forms, but where they overlap provides important insight regarding trauma informed care. To  understand more clearly how these two forms of ministry inform our work at TRC, I talked with Ylisse Bess, our Assistant Director and a Chaplain at Beth Israel Deaconess.

According to Bess, one of the greatest strengths of chaplaincy work is that chaplains are trained to engage and care for people of any and all faith backgrounds. Chaplains must be able to listen to and honor the wide variety of beliefs which people bring into their conversations. However, the chaplain’s ability to minister to a  member of their community over an extended period of time is severely restricted, due to the limited time available to serve while individuals are visiting the location where the chaplain is commissioned.

This is where congregational ministries excel. They are designed to care for a community for generations and foster communities which promote development throughout its members’ lives. This is realized through  shared beliefs and practices for these communities, and agreement that in their shared faith, more transformative relationships are built. Bess noted that the familiarness and trust she has been able to build in her own faith community allows her to witness and experience the gifts of shared living and learning in the community. She shares, “It's beautiful to me that people choose to come together over generations and they still trust the people in the community and trust that God is present there.” 

Bess describes her work as a chaplain as making her more comfortable with uncertainty and illuminated to her the importance of relying on community during uncertain times. She compares this relationship with that of Ruth and Naomi traveling together in search of a home, trusting that they will be able to find it together. When life seems to be unpredictable, we can rely on our communities to accompany us, to comfort us, and to lead us into the next step of our journey . Of course, no community is perfect; but we know that we can still experience God’s healing power within them, in the togetherness and the sanctity of each challenging space. 

This is our hope at TRC. We desire to assist in the support of congregations as they attempt to care more fully for the hurts that occur in and around each  of our partnered communities. Chaplains, like Bess, are accustomed to walking with people in their uncertain times. We, too, will work to support our partner congregations as they endeavor to provide more trauma informed care in their communities, by utilizing the wisdom and experience of Bess and other chaplains.

Written by : Miranda Mason

TRC's New Associate Director, Ylisse Bess

 

When Ylisse Bess first began her work as a chaplain after graduating from BU School of Theology with a Master of Divinity (M.Div.), she decided to explore chaplaincy from a research perspective. So Bess reached out to Shelly Rambo, Associate Professor of Theology and (now) Director of Trauma Responsive Congregations (TRC), looking to pursue this interest. Moving from Educational Advisor to Associate Director on our team, Bess is passionate about TRC’s, which she describes as, “really great congregations that are already doing wonderful work and thinking through how to respond to traumas in their communities, partnering with TRC to learn from and better support their efforts to maximize their impact.”

Photo of Ylisse Bess, Associate Director

Ylisse Bess, Associate Director

As a chaplain, Bess is able to accompany people in their times of transition and crisis, allowing her to witness the many types of trauma that can occur in people’s lives. She has been able to work on a number of projects seeking to better support ministers in congregational settings, understanding that ministers do not have the same structured support systems as chaplains. Many people experience traumas and they often bring those to or experience them in faith communities, and the task of attempting to properly deal with those traumas is often too tall an order for congregational leaders who are often already overworked. Burnout and exhaustion are very real challenges which pressure TRC’s partner congregations, and that is where Bess sees her role in this work. As she moves from Educational Advisor to Associate Director in the TRC leadership team, Bess hopes to be the first line of support for our partnered congregations,  able to connect them with the resources and support networks they will need to persist in this important work. 

When I was interviewing with Bess regarding her new role, she shared with me that one of her favorite things about congregational life is the familiarness of the community, seeing the growth and development of a faith community occurring over generations. There is a particular kind of power that can be built in the shared experience of life in a faith community — forged in the laughter, the laments, the shouts of celebration, the worshiping and dancing, the shared silence of prayer — and it can be a power that heals or hurts. This power is what draws Bess to the work of Trauma Responsive Congregations, to support and encourage the leaders of our partner churches as they endeavor to analyze the social structures and wounds in their communities and mobilize that sacred power of communal life to address them effectively. 

As Bess begins her work in her new position, she wants our partners to know: “You and your congregations are amazing and are doing amazing work. Reach out whenever you need, we’re really here to be a resource, to help find resources, to help you deal with even the small issues. The work you’re doing matters, and we want you to trust us in that process and know that you can bring even the small issues to us.”

Written by: Miranda Mason